• 什么叫对自己好一点?

            对象叫我对自己好一点。怎么样才算对自己好一点?这几天我一直在想这个问题,除了身体上照顾好自己以外没有什么答案。
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  • Streams of Thoughts

    Yesterday was not really a good day, despite that I finished reading Anne Carson’s sequel to Autobiography of Red: Red Doc>.

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  • 自娱自乐者的宣言

       不发信息联系、不祝你生日快乐、不叫你出来玩、不叫你吃饭,都不能代表我不喜欢你。实际上我连自己的生日都不是很在乎,而且一个月都不出门吃一次饭,并且任何节日都不过,你为啥要希望我对你做这些事?
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  • 2023 Matters年度问卷

    1. 相比過去幾年,2023 過得更漫長還是更快了?

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  • 12/25/23, Mon – 碎碎念

       一方面不想过过去那样的生活了,另一方面又不知道新生活应该是什么样。
  • 找工作

            当前找工作最困难的点甚至已经不是找工作本身了,而是如何能够保持一个相对平衡的心态来持续地找工作。因为我已经知道,短时间内是找不到工作的了。和我自己的关系小,和整个招工市场、大环境的关系大。找工找到现在已经过去了四个多月,还不知道接下来还需要持续多长时间。找到一份合适的工作仍然是我的最终目标,只是不知道什么时候才能达到这个目标。
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  • 我在读博期间最重要的个人研究发现

            以下两条原来在读博期间时密集做访谈后观察到的发现,多次验证从未被打破。应该也是我读博期间个人观察到最重要的发现。
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  • Sunshine and Sound

    After several days of constant rain, the sun finally appears, and then today’s highest temperature is 17 celsius. Today is one of those rare days that enjoying sunshine is an obligation.

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  • A Goodbye to City Life

    Today’s weather is perfect. The sun is out, yet the temperature isn’t too high or too low. There’s a little breeze, and the air is fresh and crisp, accompanied by an early taste of autumn. Officially speaking, autumn isn’t here yet. We need to wait until September 22nd, the autumnal equinox, one of the only two days on which the length of daytime equals that of the nighttime everywhere on earth (the other day is spring equinox). I learned about this in middle-school geography class, and I was impressed enough by this fact of nature that I still remembered it after so many years.

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  • Why I Lost Interest in UX Research

    Upon writing down the title of this reflection, I realize it’s not fair to say I’ve “lost interest in UX research” — I don’t really have much interest to begin with. I love research and I enjoy doing research, but UX research is not research. This I was clear of since the very first week of interning at Facebook (the company was still known as “Facebook” then). The kind of research I want to do doesn’t exist in the corporate world. But UX research was – and still is – the closest alternative I could find, so I opted in, thinking at least I could still read and write as part of my daily job.

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